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Writer's pictureMisi Dwi Jayanti

Small Things that Really Don't Matter

Updated: Apr 7, 2023

Personal Reflection



Nowadays, people tend to get really irritated and sweat over small stuff that can take their happiness away."

I would say that it is super relatable for most people, and I am speaking from a personal experience. People can get super affected when they accidentally break their phones, or laptops, or have a terrible internet connection. It makes total sense as our lives are connected to technology, and people's lives are becoming more digital than ever.


Ironically, this incident can increase unhappiness and depression levels, as they become more materialistic. Besides, people value more of these material possessions more, rather than seeing the bigger picture of how privileged they are. Another example, I remembered dealing with so-called "perfectionists", when they had to sweat over their grades at school, small details in work assignments, and countless excuses that made them think "it is okay to be disrespectful or belittle other team members". But guess what? At the end of the day, these little imperfections that they were stressed about don't really matter and won't affect the way they live in the future. Our horizontal and vertical relationships matter much more than we can realize.

So, next time when we feel upset over the small things, let's change our mindset! Let's be a little kinder and be more grateful, as we need to count our blessings every single day and remember that many other people out there dream to have what we have today.


With Love,

Misi DJ

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